How To Navigate Life Changes

How To Navigate Life Changes

Fear of change is pretty much universal. Nobody likes the unknown, and everyone gets comfortable with what they are used to. But inevitably, our life will change whether we like it or not. Some changes are expected, and others are a total shock to us.

I don’t have any data to back this up, but I think our 20’s might be the time with the most change. As a 24-year-old, I feel the last four years have brought the most changes of my life so far. I studied abroad for a semester, graduated from college, got my first full-time job, moved into my own apartment, lost a relationship, left my job, had family structures shift, and lost my relationship again.

Through all of these changes, some good and some bad, I managed to keep my head up and stay relatively positive, using some of the tips I mention in my How To Stay Positive post.  Lately, I’ve been thinking of ways I have been able to navigate change, and I wanted to share some of my tips with you all.

Live In The Moment

As I mentioned above, everyone is afraid of the unknown. It’s easy to worry about the future, especially during times of change when our future seems so unknown to us. It’s also easy to dwell on the past, and wish that we could go back to what we had before. However, neither of these patterns serve to make us any happier. Change happens, and we can’t go back to what our life was like before. We also can’t predict what is around the corner. All we can do is make this day, this moment, the best it can be. Focus on living in the now, and let life take you where it takes you.

Embrace The Change

There is always a silver lining to whatever change you are experiencing. Change can be stressful, but it is also an exciting opportunity to have a fresh start. You are starting a new chapter in your life, and you can take whatever course you want! I was terrified when I left my job, but I also felt a sense of freedom because now I can choose what I want my next step in my career to be. Do I want to continue working in social media? Do I want to give real estate a try? Or do I want to do something completely different? I’m embracing this life change and looking forward to what is to come.

Create Routines

Part of why change is so frightening is that we feel like we can’t control it. Feeling out of control is never fun, so I try to find small things in my life to take charge of, to set up a sense of routine. For example, my mom and I have been taking walks every morning during the week. Starting my day with a walk (and girl talk with my mom) not only helps me feel happier throughout the day, but it also helps me feel like I am in control of at least one portion of my life. Setting small routines like that is a huge help when everything around you seems a bit chaotic.

 

I hope this helped you all, or will be of help in the future when your next life change occurs. Let me know in the comments how you’ve been able to get through big changes in your life!

I’m a Blogging Meetup Organizer!

I’m a Blogging Meetup Organizer!

I just wanted to write a quick post today letting you all know about a new project I’m working on. About a month ago I became the organizer of a Meetup group for bloggers in Austin. The organizer before me had to step down, and he sent out an email asking if anyone would be interested in taking over. On a whim I emailed and said I would, and next thing I knew, I was the new organizer!

The group has over 300 members, so I was a bit nervous for the responsibility, but was also excited to have a new challenge. I started by creating a poll in the group asking what kind of event everyone would want to have for our first meetup. The majority of members voted for a chill get-together at a coffee shop, so I picked a date and time and told everyone to meet at one of my favorite coffee shops: Mozart’s.

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We had about 10 people show up, which was the perfect amount to be able to sit outside at a long picnic table and talk all things blogging. We started by going around and sharing who we were and what we blogged about, and it was amazing how many different areas and interests everyone focused on for their blog, from guitar repair to dog care. I’ve listed everyone’s blog links at the end of this post so you all can check them out!

I’m excited to see where this new opportunity takes me. It already seems to be a great way to meet new people and learn more about blogging. Everyone brings their own expertise and opinions to the table, and I’m looking forward to learning from them.

Let me know in the comments if you’ve ever participated in or lead a Meetup group, or something similar! I’d love to hear your thoughts and advice. Also, be sure to check out all of the blog links below, and you’ll see what I mean about the variety in types of content. Also, if you’re in the Austin area and looking for a new group to join, check out Austin Area Bloggers! 

Meetup Group Members Blogs:

myasays.com

impulsivetravelerguy.com 

geekybetterlife.com

k9ofmine.com

thomsinger.com

landisguitars.com

mycallavida.com